Very interesting problem. It’s a regular 2D dynamic programming problem, but understanding the problem is actually harder than solving it.
It’s actually easier to think of * as a “counter” that takes values from 0 to infinity. For example ab matches the pattern c*a*b* because c*a*b* can be interpreted as c0a1b1. Similarly aaaaaa matches a* because a* can be interpreted as a6.
Based on this concept, the pattern .* can match any string because it can be .0 which matches empty string, or .100 which matches 100 arbitrary characters.